What is "a village"?

Your village is your social network, which supports and eases your burdens during your crazy journey as a mom or dad . Who belongs to your village is very individual. It could be friends and neighbors, or simply another parent who, like you, picks up their child from gymnastics on Thursdays at 3 p.m.

Consider who could support you and how , and also how you can ease the burden on others around you. Then step out of your comfort zone! Just chat up someone who seems nice. You'll be amazed at how openly and positively many people react.

How do I find my village?

⭐ Keep your eyes open in everyday life: Playgrounds, daycare, school or sports clubs are ideal ;)

⭐ Share interests: Tell us about your hobbies or dreams!

⭐ Be brave: Sometimes you just need to take the first step. A brief exchange, no matter how banal, can be the beginning of a valuable connection.

⭐ Give and take: A village works both ways. When you accept help, you can also give something back—in your own unique way.

Why a village is worth it

✨ More connection: You'll engage more with the people around you and build relationships. Perhaps even valuable friendships will develop.

😌 Less pressure: Through sharing, you realize that everyone has flaws and that other families only seem perfect at first glance . This takes the pressure off!

🕒 More time for yourself: Carpooling, playdates, and celebrating your kids' birthdays together gives you more me-time and resources for your own projects.

👧 Strong children: Your children experience community and see how supportive interaction can work, regardless of their differences . At the same time, you teach them that mom and dad also need to take care of themselves and that they can accept help.

💑 More couple time: The village also has a positive effect on your relationship. You'll be relieved of stress, have more time together , and can count on outside help in stressful situations. This ensures a more relaxed relationship.

🚫 Media is not a village

Sure, Instagram, forums, or podcasts can inspire, encourage, and make you feel like you're not alone. But media is no substitute for a real village.

🤝 A real village consists of people , not profiles:

• People who see you when you're tired.

• People who pick up your child.

• People who honestly say: “I don’t always feel well either.”

Digital communities like the Hugo Family on Facebook are close to this village idea because they have created a community with similar values ​​and experiences. They can offer motivation, exchange, and quick tips.